What is the best way to tackle problems?
Humor is the solution to problems. View everything that happens from a sunny and humorous perspective. It depends how you want to see it. Life can be a succession of problems. Or life is the life in which things alternate and challenge you to grow. Every person looks at it differently. When we see life with problems, we often don’t know where and how to start solving them.
That we don’t see that, is because we see problems. There are no problems. There is a life, that life is different every day and is subject to change. Those changes, how do you see them? As something threatening, do you approach them with fear and trembling?
Are you afraid that your life will change? If you like to hold on to what’s there, you’ll see changes as a negative thing in your life. If you are neutral in life, then you are aware that something can always change. The latter attitude gives a person so much more peace in his life.
A life is not the same every day, wanting to go against it, makes no sense, then you see every change as something threatening and you experience immediate resistance within yourself, so that you start to see every change as a problem.
Life has challenges that we can see as problems. The moment we experience the changes as problems, we lose the joy and pleasure in life. It is precisely these two qualities that ensure that we can come up with solutions for what happens to us.
Example, you are in a hurry, too late for work. You jump in the car and find out after 10 minutes that you have left something at home, and what do you think grumpy. I can’t be late, can I? I have to go home now. You could have thought, can’t do anything about it, what should I do and laugh at it, bring humor into it. Perspective. You feel a lot better and the solutions come sooner.
You will also see that this attitude has a positive effect on your environment, where you were first afraid that your boss would be angry that you were late, you now step inside with bravado, showing. I know, it’s not handy, trust me, I’m not going to let it happen again.
The best way to tackle problems is to have a humorous and positive outlook on life. You don’t have to do everything right at once, you can also do something wrong. And if it is not something that is caused by yourself, laugh about it and think to yourself, it will be fine. That doesn’t mean that you laugh it away and wait until it dissolves or someone else does it for you. You make what you stand for, lighter and therefore easier.
You lose your job, you aren’t happy with that at all. A humor thought may be, but it is in the middle of summer, always better than in the middle of winter, then I can enjoy the freedom that I have now. With this you indicate, I make the best of it and don’t worry that the new job will come again.
And the strange thing about all this is that job will come sooner than with those who have seen it as a very big problem. They don’t pull it at themselves, they push the solution away.
Every step you make, is a step forwards, and you see the steps as growth or as a problem. Life is life and there will always be something. Change the way you think, do it together with a Mastermedium. They can help you to get the humor back in life when everything for you doesn’t work out the way you want.